Mrs Sarah WATERS, formerly Mrs Sylvester, née Sheen (1800–1872)
Her son Edward SYLVESTER (1826–1874)
St Giles section: Row 2, Grave B27
WHO DIED OCT … 1872
AGED 72 YEARS
ELDEST SON OF THE ABOVE
WHO DIED DECEMBER 24 - 1874
AGED 48 YEARS.
Edward Thomas Sylvester, husband of Sarah and father of Edward junior, is not buried here, as he died in 1832, before the cemetery was opened.
Sarah Sheen was born in Greatworth, Northamptonshire in 1800 and baptised there on 17 August. She was the daughter of the farmer John Sheen and Elizabeth Freeman, who were married at Greatworth on 29 October 1790. They had five other children baptised at Greatworth: Benjamin (1791), Elizabeth (1792), Mary (1795), Ann (1797), Hester (1806, died the same year). Sarah's father John Freeman died in 1813.
In about the early 1820s Sarah Sheen married her first husband, Edward Thomas Sylvester, and they had the following children:
- Edward Sylvester (born in St Giles’s parish Oxford on 25 January 1826, with his birth registered at New Road Baptist Chapel on 30 October 1826)
- Paul Sylvester (born at Beaumont Street, Oxford on 15 December 1828, with his birth registered at New Road Baptist Church on 29 January 1829).
Sarah's husband Edward Thomas Sylvester was a chemist, and Pigot’s Directory for both 1824 and 1930 lists the firm Thurland & Sylvester in St Mary Magdalen parish (probably at 10 Magdalen Street). He died on 12 February 1832, and his death was reported in Jackson’s Oxford Journal. He could not have been buried at St Sepulchre’s Cemetery, as it did not open until 1848.
On 19 December 1833, at St Mary Magdalen Church. Oxford, Mrs Sarah Sylvester (33) of Beaumont Street married her second husband, John Whittenbury Waters (21), who was born in Easton, London in 1811/12, the eldest son of the Revd P. Waters of Worcester. The witnesses were William and Sarah Maria Sylvester. They had three children:
- Thomas Waters (born in Oxford on 19 September 1834 and registered at New Road Baptist Church on 15 October 1835), but died straight afterwards, aged one month.
- Alfred Waters (born in Birmingham in 1836/7)
- Sarah Matilda Whittenbury Waters (born in Oxford in 1838/9).
Sarah's second husband John Whittenbury Waters was also a chemist, and Robson’s Directory for 1839 shows that his shop was at 21 Magdalen Street; meanwhile Edward Thurland, Sylvester’s former partner, still had his shop nearby at 10 Magdalen Street.
In 1851 Sarah and her second husband were living in New Street, Birmingham with their son Alfred (7) and one servant.
In 1861 Sarah (60) and John (49) were living at 39 Aston Street, Birmingham.
Her second husband John Whittenbury Waters died in Aston, Birmingham on 3 August 1869.
At the time of the 1871 census Sarah Waters (70) was staying at 95 Wilmslow Road, Chorlton, Lancashire with her son Paul (42) and his wife Catherine (49).
Sarah died in Oxford in 1872:
† Mrs Sarah Waters, formerly Mrs Sylvester, died at Norham Gardens at the age of 72 in October 1872 and was buried at St Sepulchre's Cemetery on 23 October (burial recorded in the parish register of St Giles’s Church).
Edward Sylvester continued
Edward Sylvester had already left home by the time of the 1841 census, when he was just 15, and was living as a servant of the grocer William Richardson over his shop in Queen Street, Oxford.
By the time of the 1851 census Edward (25) was a clerk to the accountant Thomas Hawkins of 2 St John Street, and lived alone in lodgings in that road.
By 1855 Sylvester must have been a partner in the accounting firm, as that year a joint lease was granted to Thomas Hawkins and Edward Sylvester, accountants. This probably relates to 68 St Giles’s Street, where the accountancy firm of Hawkins & Sylvester was henceforth situated.
Helen Bobart was born at St Giles’s Terrace in Oxford on 20 August 1832 and was baptised at St Giles’s Church on 20 August. She was the youngest daughter of Tilleman Hodgkinson Bobart (c.1771–1838), an Esquire Bedel of Law who was the descendant of Jacob Bobart, the seventeenth-century keeper of the Botanic Garden. At the time of the 1851 census Helen was living at 6 St Giles’s Road (the name given to the south end of both the Woodstock and Banbury Roads) with her widowed mother Harriett Elizabeth Bobart and her sister Mary Ann (23) and brother Gamaliel (17). On 23 September 1851 Charles Titian Hawkins (an accountant at 9 Broad Street) married Helen’s sister Mary Ann Bobart at St Giles’s Church, and both Edward Sylvester and Helen Bobart were the godparents of their son Charles Laurence, baptised at St John the Baptist Church, Summertown on 21 September 1852. Helen Bobart’s mother died in 1856 (registered second quarter).
On 23 September 1856 at St John the Baptist Church in Summertown, Edward Sylvester married Helen Bobart: in the marriage announcement in Jackson's Oxford Journal, Edward was described as being of Summertown, and Helen of Oxford. They had no children.
They appear to have separated soon after the marriage, as at the time of the 1861 census his wife Helen (29) was living with her brother Tilleman H. Bobart, who was a land agent, and his family in Ashby-de-la-Zouch.
On 30 March 1868 at Manchester, Edward's brother Paul Sylvester, described as a chemist of Ashton-under-Lyne, married Catherine Phythian of Rusholme, near Manchester, and an announcement was placed in Jackson's Oxford Journal.
By the time of the 1871 census, Edward Sylvester (45), who continued to describe himself as married, was living at 3 Norham Road with his unmarried half-sister Sarah Matilda Whittenbury Waters. Visiting them was Miss Sophia H. Waters (36), born in Garford, Berkshire.
On Christmas Eve 1874 Edward Sylvester set out from Oxford station on the London to Birmingham train with his half-sister Miss Sarah Matilda Waters, planning to spend a week in Manchester, probably visiting their brother Paul. When the London-to-Birmingham train reached Oxford, all fifteen carriages were already full with people travelling home for Christmas, and an old third-class carriage was attached to it to accommodate the people getting on at Oxford station. About a mile after passing through the Woodstock Road station, the wheel of that carriage broke, and the train went over an embankment, resulting in the famous Shipton-on-Cherwell railway disaster. Sylvester died instantly in the crash:
† Edward Sylvester died on 24 December 1874 at the age of 45, and his body was laid out with the dead in sheds at the Hampton Gay Paper Mill. After the inquest, he was buried at St Sepulchre’s Cemetery on 29 December (burial recorded in the parish register of St Giles’s Church).
Because he had died to the north of Oxford, his death was registered in the Woodstock district. The following notice was placed in Jackson's Oxford Journal on 2 January 1875, after the funeral:
Dec. 24, by the accident at Shipton, Edward Sylvester, of the firm of Hawkins and Sylvester, and of Burford-Villa, Norham-road, Oxford. Friends will kindly accept this intimation.
The same edition of newspaper had the following report on the accident:
Among those who were instantaneously killed, judging from the extent of the injuries, at the moment of the accident, was Mr. Edward Sylvester, of the firm Hawkins and Sylvester, accountants, St. Giles’s, whose residence was at Norham Manor, St. Giles’s. Miss Waters, his sister-in-law [i.e. half-sister], who was travelling with him to Manchester, is seriously injured. The deceased gentleman was very highly respected throughout the city. He was buried on Tuesday morning in St. Paul’s Cemetery, his mortal remains being followed to the grave by those nearest and dearest to him.
The writer of these remarks saw the deceased searched within an hour or two of the accident, and the official report then made was as follows:—“No. 5, Man, aged 40, 2l. 13s. in money, two tickets Oxford to Manchester, third-class; card, with name, J. Burgess, 19, St. Ebbe’s, Oxford.” The finding of this card naturally gave rise to the suspicion that Mr. Burgess was the victim, but it appears that Mr. Sylvester had engaged Burgess to drive him to the Station in his cab, and had further engaged him to meet him on his return on the 31st, and hence it was that Burgess gave him his card. Within a few short minutes Mr. Sylvester was a mutilated corpse.
His effects came to nearly £2,000, and his executor was his brother Paul Sylvester, described as a chemist of Rusholme near Manchester.
On 12 June 1875 the newspaper advertised an auction at his house in Norham Road of rosewood and mahogany furniture; valuable oil paintings, prints and engravings; and china, glass, and kitchen requisites.
His estranged wife Mrs Helen Sylvester was boarding at Brentford in 1881 and at Ealing in 1891. She died at 241 Uxbridge Road, Ealing Dean, Middlesex at the age of 65 on 12 December 1896. Her effects came to £1,460, and her executor was the accountant Frederick Hawkins.